Find Clarity.
Rebuild Trust.
Outshine.
from confusion to confidence
Resources, education, community, and recovery pathways designed to help women move from confusion to confidence.
Not Sure If What Happened
Was Really That Bad?
it was. and now you can name it.
The Gaslighting Reality Tracker helps you identify manipulation patterns, trust your own memory, and stop second-guessing yourself.
Download the Free Tracker →Choose Your Next Step
Clarity Call
Personal 1-on-1 support. No pitch. Just clarity, direction, and your next right step.
Book a Call →Workshops
Schools, churches, organizations, workplace wellbeing, and conferences. Trauma-informed and practical.
View Workshops →Outshine the Narcissist™
The complete 8-module recovery roadmap. Video lessons, tools, exercises, and guided healing resources.
Learn More →Outshine Collective™
Community, education, and ongoing support. Opening Late Fall 2026 founding members of Outshine the Narcissist™ get first access.
Join the Waitlist →When you can name it,
you can change it.
Whether you just found the words for what you lived through, or you are deep in your healing journey, this space was built for you. I help women move through confusion, rebuild self-trust, and step into a life that feels like theirs again. Not by pushing through it, but by understanding what happened and working with your nervous system, not against it.
My mission is to help women move from confusion to clarity through education, nervous system healing, positive psychology, and faith-informed support.
SommerClarity. Healing. Self-Trust.
Everything inside Sommertime Soul is built around one method. Three steps. One direction.
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Name It
Understand what is happening.
Learn to identify unhealthy patterns, self-doubt, conditioning, and survival responses so you can stop blaming yourself.
Gaslighting Reality Tracker02
Heal It
Regulate your nervous system.
Build safety in your body, reconnect with yourself, and create a foundation for lasting change.
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Outshine It
Rebuild trust in yourself.
Move forward with confidence, clarity, stronger boundaries, and a deeper connection to who you are.
Outshine Collective™Resilience. Wellbeing.
Community. Faith.
The work extends beyond individual healing into schools, workplaces, organizations, and communities. Through workshops, education, and faith-sensitive support, the mission is to build resilience before the wound not just after it.
Private Coaching
for the woman ready to go deeperFor women seeking personalized support, deeper healing work, and a customized path forward.
Limited Availability · Application Required
Private coaching is offered on a limited basis for women seeking personalized support.
Real Words. Real Shifts.
If you are on the fence about working with Sommer, see it as an investment in yourself. You will gain tools to shift your thoughts and write a new narrative based on who God says you are, not the lies of confusion or destruction.
I did not realize how much I was drowning until I felt safe enough to talk to someone like Sommer. It has been life-changing. Freeing, comforting, and validating. Now I feel hopeful and positive again.
Working with Sommer has given me hope and opened many doors I did not have the confidence to open for years. I found a safe place to be vulnerable and to know I will not always be in this place of hurt.
You Were Created
For More Than Survival
let's walk together
Into a season of peace, restoration, and purpose.