You're Not Crazy.
You Were Conditioned.
A 6-week guided recovery experience to break the trauma bond, regulate your nervous system, and rebuild self-trust after emotionally harmful relationships.
Limited to 10 · Founding pricing will not return
You left…
but it doesn't feel over.
You still:
- Replay everything — the conversations, the moments, what you should have said
- Feel emotionally tied even though you know it was harmful
- Question yourself constantly — your memory, your judgment, your worth
- Don't feel like yourself anymore
You understand it logically…
but your body hasn't caught up.
This isn't weakness.
This is trauma.
This wasn't just
a relationship.
It takes 6 months to years to heal from narcissistic abuse — not because you're weak, but because of what actually happened to you.
You weren't just heartbroken.
You were rewired.
If any of this
sounds familiar.
- You know it was unhealthy — but you still feel attached
- You're tired of overthinking every single thing
- You don't trust your own decisions anymore
- You feel shame for staying as long as you did
- You're ready to stop repeating the pattern
- You want to feel like yourself again — fully, freely
- You're ready to heal the relationship with yourself first
You don't need
more information.
You've read the articles. You understand it intellectually. What you need is different.
Outshine the Narcissist™
Founding Recovery Experience
Understand what's happening in your body. Reduce overwhelm. Normalize your experience. Learn why you feel stuck even after leaving — and start to feel safe again.
Understand narcissistic patterns, gaslighting, the trauma bond cycle, and intermittent reinforcement. Finally see what was real — without self-blame.
Trauma bonding explained simply. Emotional addiction patterns. Why no contact feels like withdrawal — and how to interrupt the pull.
Nervous system regulation, fight/flight/freeze/fawn, somatic practices, and a daily reset protocol. Your body learns to feel safe again.
Loss of identity after toxic relationships. Self-trust rebuilding. Boundaries without guilt — boundary scripts, self-trust framework, decision-making tools.
Post-traumatic growth. Identity rebuilding. Future relationship standards. A vision for who you are now — and who you're becoming.
Everything you need.
Nothing you don't.
Consider the investment
Three therapy sessions alone can cost $450 to $600 — and they may not even address narcissistic abuse specifically. This experience gives you a complete, guided recovery process with ongoing support, live access to a certified narcissistic abuse specialist, and tools you keep forever.
This isn't just
a course.
- You are guided through a complete recovery process — not left alone to figure it out
- Every topic has trauma-informed tools designed specifically for nervous system healing
- You can ask questions and move through this in real time with live support
- Sommer has spent years studying patterns of healing working 1:1 with clients
- This is for anyone who has ever been in a harmful relationship — the core is healing the relationship with yourself
This is where
real healing starts.
Hi, I'm Sommer Leigh.
I'm a Certified Narcissistic Abuse Specialist, Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach, and Mental Wellbeing Practitioner. I'm also a survivor — and I've spent years working 1:1 with clients studying the patterns of healing after narcissistic relationships.
I know what it's like to feel stuck in the loop. I also know there's a way through it. This program is everything I wish had existed when I needed it most.
Real words.
Real results.
This is the first round.
I'm keeping it small.
I'm limiting this to 10 people so I can fully support everyone inside. When these spots are gone, the price increases and this founding experience closes.
- Full 6-week guided recovery experience
- Bi-weekly live support calls with Sommer (recorded)
- Private community with weekly tools and encouragement
- 1:1 private 60-minute integration session with Sommer
- Trauma-informed workbooks and reflections for every module
- Lifetime access to all materials and recordings
- Founding pricing — will not return after this round
- Additional private clarity session with Sommer
- Narcissistic Recovery Workbook (Understanding Narcissism Guide)
Trauma-informed coach, not a licensed therapist. This program is educational and coaching-based, not a substitute for professional mental health treatment.
If you've been trying to
figure this out alone…
You don't have to anymore.
You don't need to be perfectly ready. You just need to know one thing:
Something has to change.
Join the Founding Experience →
You don't heal by
moving on.
You heal by:
- Understanding what actually happened
- Regulating your nervous system
- Rebuilding self-trust from the inside out
- Reclaiming who you are
And you don't have to do it alone anymore.
Join the Founding Experience →