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"You kept going back not because you were weak. You went back because your nervous system was trained to."
and that is what keeps you repeating the pattern
Why you feel stuck
It takes 6 months to years to heal. Here is why.
Because of narcissistic abuse and psychological manipulation, the damage goes deeper than heartbreak. It rewires your nervous system, erodes self-trust, and changes how you move through the world. Most approaches treat the thinking. They miss the body entirely.
01
Psychological conditioning
Your perception of reality was systematically altered over time.
02
Trauma bonding
The intermittent reward cycle creates an attachment as strong as addiction.
03
Nervous system dysregulation
Your body learned to survive in chaos. It does not just switch off.
04
Loss of self-trust
When someone rewrites your reality long enough, you stop trusting yourself.
You were not just heartbroken. You were rewired.
The Outshine Method™
Four steps. One direction.
01
Stabilize
Regulate your nervous system first. The body holds what you have lived through long after you leave it. Nothing else works until this does.
02
See clearly
Name the pattern accurately. Understand the dynamic without turning the damage inward as shame.
03
Self-trust
Rebuild your internal compass. Survival mode erodes it over time. This step restores it.
04
Shift forward
Change how you choose and respond. This is where the pattern ends and a different way of living begins.
Your guide
Sommer Leigh
"Most coaches talk about the relationship. I talk about what happens after."
Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach, Narcissistic Abuse Specialist, and Mental Wellbeing Practitioner.
I do not just help women understand what happened. I help them come back to themselves.
This program is everything I wish had existed when I needed it most.
Somatic Trauma-Informed Coach
Narcissistic Abuse Specialist
Mental Wellbeing Practitioner
Creator of Outshine the Narcissist
sommertimesoul.com
Outshine the patterns. Reclaim yourself.
This is the first group I will be personally supporting through this work. Limited spots — because I am including 1:1 sessions. When they are gone, they are gone.
What clients say
Real women. Real work. Real change.
"This type of work is unlike anything I have experienced in therapy before. What stood out most was the sense of control I needed in my healing. Sommer created a space that felt genuinely safe — where I did not feel rushed or judged while working through the harder parts of myself."
"Learning about my nervous system and how it shapes my day-to-day life has been eye-opening. I am becoming more aware of my body's responses — whether that is feeling frozen, needing to escape, defend myself, or completely shut down. I feel more aware of what is happening in my body and I am taking time to pause, notice, and understand my reactions."
"I am proud of myself for choosing to face the hard things, even when it would have been easier to avoid them."
Laura
Outshine™ Client
"I thought my life would always feel sad, shameful, full of guilt, and very little hope. It has been very freeing, comforting, and validating to move forward and feel hopeful."
L.H.
Private Client · Texas
"She has not only helped me become aware of and work through my trauma from narcissistic abuse, but has helped me become a more confident person. I would not be where I am without her."
Nicole
Private Client
★★★★★
"Surviving in a destructive environment is very hard and especially lonely. Sommer made herself vulnerable to share her experience, strength, and hope so we can find our own."
Darra B.
Google Review · October 2023
What's included
Everything you need. Nothing you don't.
01
Onboarding call
We start by meeting you where you are. A focused call to understand your situation and set the foundation before the work begins.
02
Full Outshine™ course — lifetime access
Six structured modules, released progressively throughout the cohort. Each one builds on the last.
03
Live Q&A calls
Direct support throughout the cohort so you are never working through it alone.
04
Guided recovery framework
Nervous system regulation tools and pattern-based exercises woven through every module.
05
One 60-minute private integration session
A dedicated 1:1 to integrate the work and map your way forward.
Six modules
Each one builds on the last.
01
Understanding the pattern
02
Trauma bonds and attachment
03
Boundaries and self-trust
04
Nervous system healing
05
Reclaiming your voice
06
Living forward
The sequence matters. Each one builds on the last.
The outcome
Where you land.
You will not leave
Questioning yourself
Confused about what happened
Stuck in the same loops
You will leave with
Clarity
Grounded decisions
Self-trust
A different way forward
The investment
Most women piece this together over years.
In traditional therapy, covering what this program covers takes 3 to 7 years and multiple therapists. Here is what that typically costs.
Traditional therapy route
Nervous system stabilization 4–12 weeks before processing begins$800–$2,400
Trauma bonding & grief work 3–6 months of weekly sessions$2,400–$4,800
Parts work & self-trust rebuilding Specialist rate, 4–6 months$3,600–$7,200
Conservative total$8,000–$17,000+
What Outshine includes
6 structured modules
Full framework — sequenced correctly
Onboarding call with Sommer
You start oriented, not alone
Live Q&A calls throughout
Direct support as you go
60-minute private integration session
A dedicated 1:1 at the end of the work
Lifetime access
Return to it every time you need it
This price, this cohort only
Founding rate closes April 19
Founding cohort rate$697
"This is not a course. It is the pathway most women spend years trying to find — and still don't."
The therapist who understands narcissistic abuse, somatic work, parts work, and attachment — all at once — is rare, expensive, and has a waitlist. This gives you the framework, the support, and the lifetime access to return to it. At a price that will not be offered again.
Founding cohort rate
Start today for just
$174
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This is not for information. This is for the shift out of the pattern.